September 8, 2008 | In: Parenthood

Save My Family Fun Night From The Lame Police



Sometimes I wish I was a kid in Heather Whitaker’s house. (That’s her and 2 of her children in the picture above.)

She plans the most AMAZING family fun nights. I’d love to do stuff like this with my family.

Except I’m not as creative as Heather is. What to do? What to do?

Then in an epiphanic moment, I thought, what if my blog friends helped out? What if we all worked together to plan a really fun (and simple) night for all of our families each week?

Teamwork! Teamwork!

Those of us with cooking skills can suggest food ideas. Those with game/craft skills can come up with a fun activity, and those with decoration skills can make the night look perfect.

And those of us with no skills can just mooch off the rest of you.


This Week’s Theme

I thought I’d start off with a simple theme. Backwards night.

A few things we can do are:

1. At the end of the night the kids can “put Mommy and Daddy to bed” – make sure we brush our teeth, read us a story, pray etc.

2. Eat on the floor.

3. Dress backwards.

Let’s work together to make fun memories for our kids!!

Your Turn

What other activities and recipes and ideas do you all have?

Share your ideas in the comments.

14 Responses to Save My Family Fun Night From The Lame Police

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OurFamilyIsHis

September 8th, 2008 at 7:50 pm

Eat on the floor? You must be one good housekeeper? I am hardly brave enough to eat off my own table, much less my floor. Hehehe.

Don’t forget to document your fun. You could even make a special photo album consisting of only family fun night pictures. Don’t forget to let the kids have the camera every now and then. They see things very differently than we do.

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Amy

September 8th, 2008 at 8:19 pm

Well if there weren’t kids involved, I’d suggest eating dessert first but I don’t think that would work. 

I don’t know how to decorate for backwards night either.  Maybe pick ugly colors instead of pretty ones?

I look forward to this new activity though, I love this kind of stuff.  Especially the idea stage (not so much the work stage)

The family nights look like fun!  But I always think they look like a TON of work, too, and I don’t know if I’d be able to do them.  Low energy, remember?

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mamasboy

September 8th, 2008 at 9:42 pm

I like reading books to my kids or playing checkers/chess/uno/mousetrap.  Not very novel, but I’m not the creative type.

MB

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Lisa H

September 9th, 2008 at 2:21 am

What a fun idea! 

I don’t know if anyone will want to try this, but I read in Family Fun magazine (a long time ago) an idea for eating dinner backwards:  Make a meatloaf and bake it in a round cake pan.  Then you ‘frost’ it with mashed potatoes and decorate it with cooked peas.  The one they did in the magazine was SO CUTE.  So then you are eating dessert first!  Then for the meal (actually dessert), I think they made a big sugar cookie on a pizza pan and decorated it with little round splotches of red jam to look like pepperoni. 

When are you planning on having your backwards night?  smile

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whittakerwoman

September 9th, 2008 at 3:03 am

Oh Backwards night was my favorite… I loved Lisa’s idea for the meals. We just went ahead and ate the cupcakes (which I put upside down) first! We dressed backwards, we sat under the table, I put a vase in the center and put flowers in the water and stems sticking out. For the food we had hot dogs but cut the hot dog in half and put the bun in the middle of the two hot dogs, we had a 7 down meaning I took a can of 7 up popped a hole in the bottom and put a straw through it. It was a fun night. I love the idea of kids putting parents to bed! So fun! H

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randel hambrick

September 9th, 2008 at 5:38 am

i am AWFUL at this stuff- i have NEVER had a family fun night…. but i do read all of these people’s blogs that have them, and i have considered it….

soooo, maybe if we hold each other accountable and attempt it i’m in…. otherwise i think i’ll just watch everyone else parent well… smile

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Mark Whitlock

September 9th, 2008 at 6:41 am

I enjoy reading your blog. I connected to you through Michael Hyatt and I see in your blogroll many blogs I subscribe to. I’m a real reader, not someone trolling Google for an opportunity to plug a book.

Enough caveats…

I wrote a small book a few years ago called FIFTY NIGHTS OF FAMILY FUN. I was working at http://www.familylife.com at the time. Every August, Dennis Rainey and Co. encourage families to fast from media as a way to “reset” consumption and family togetherness.

There are a lot of great ideas inside. But the worst part about the book is the fact my kids haul it out every so often to remind me that we haven’t had a family fun night in a while. Ahh, conviction!

Check out the book here:  http://store.familylife.com/detail.asp?id=7283&p;=&c;=&g;=

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charity

September 9th, 2008 at 7:16 am

we did a backwards party for kids friends when school started as our back to school shin dig a few years back… same things mentioned here… kids were parents, ate dessert first… sat under tables… wore clothes backwards… one boy showed up with his undies outside of his pants grin

Decorations:  we wrote words and place cards backwards… had upside down candles… turned pictures on the wall backwards…put glow sticks on the ground so the light source was down not up…

We read I can read with my eyes shut by Dr. Seuss and played a game where

I wrote out goofy cards with things like… there’s a fish on the wall

and they had to read it with their eyes shut and so they would make up funny things

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charity

September 9th, 2008 at 7:19 am

oops if you click on my name THAT IS NOT MY BLOG SORRY

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Kat

September 9th, 2008 at 9:12 am

Our Family Is His,

I actually meant that we’d eat on the floor..as in under the table – my floor is SO not clean enough to eat off of… grin

Great idea about documenting the fun nights. I think they’ll really have fun down the road looking back at what will hopefully be a long running tradition.

Amy,

You know, I think eating dessert first would be really fun and novel. We don’t eat many desserts around here, so to have a dessert AND eat it first would be a huge highlight for my kids. Good idea!

Mamasboy,

I think that’s awesome that you read and play with the kids. That’s the sign of a good dad.

And you gave me a good idea for fun night. We can play Candyland…backwards.

Lisa H,

That’s a fun idea! I might have to combine that idea with Amy’s of eating the dessert first.

Right now we’re planning to have our Family Fun Nights on Fridays.

Whittakerwoman,

Oh, I love the flower idea. That’s hilarious! Thanks for all the inspiration…

Randel,

I’m not good abotu doing them either. I tried it once and the kids loved it….and I’ve not done it again. How awful is that?

grin So that’s why I’m hoping we come come together and create something cool.

Mark Whitlock,

Sounds like a GREAT book. I’ll go check it out…

Charity,

Such fun ideas. I especially like the one about hanging the pictures backwards. I think the kids will have a ball coming up with ways to decorate for Backwards night…

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Kate McDonald

September 9th, 2008 at 3:32 pm

Such great ideas! My son is only 16 months so our family fun “early evenings” (we don’t “encourage” him to be up at night! *grin*) involve tickling and wrestling and watching his First Signs video!

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Melanie @ Mel, A Dramatic Mommy

September 9th, 2008 at 6:38 pm

I can’t remember where I heard it but have a dinner for breakfast (like spaghetti) and breakfast for dinner. Sometimes when I’m totally lazy I offer my son a backwards day dinner and we have cereal or oatmeal. He loves it! Here’s a link to some of the Family Fun Magazine recipes. Good luck!

http://familyfun.go.com/recipes/family/specialfeature/aprilfools-food-pranks-ms/

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OurFamilyIsHis

September 10th, 2008 at 3:14 am

As for desert first, I heard somewhere that sweets BEFORE you start eating the main meal get your body pumping and raising your metabolism, thus making your meal breakdown a bit quicker and not having the calories be quite as bad for you.

Now, this could be so totally wrong that it’s ridiculous. But, uh, cake first then broccoli? I am good with that so I won’t research it too much. =}

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pete

September 10th, 2008 at 3:11 pm

I was *just* thinking about how to get creative with family time!

I ain’t got no ideas.

BUT…

I am really looking forward to gleaning the great ideas from everyone else!

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