Simple and Faithful
That has been my theme for the year.
I’ve simplified our stuff. I’ve simplified my time. I’ve simplified my responsibilites.
And I have a long way to go.
But even the little progress I’ve made has been so sweet.
It’s almost as if God has taken the role of an archeologist; whittling away at the dirt, dust and crud until He gets down to who I really am.
Who I’m supposed to be.
The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary so that the necessary may speak. -Hans Hofmann
And that person is much simpler than I ever thought. I used to rail off a “Who’s Who Among American High School Students” sized list of activities and achievements. As if each additional responsibility increased my value in other people’s eyes.
Because I definitely didn’t want other people to think I was a boring, dull, lifeless person.
So I spent a lot of time doing stuff. I stayed up late. I woke up early. I did stuff on my computer while my kids watched TV and played.
And, sure enough, three people said I was cool.
….and none of them were my kids. I wasn’t doing half the job I knew I could do as a parent because I was spending that energy elsewhere.
So this year, my goal has been to simplify and be faithful to the few things that I choose to do.
Blogging Break
These last two weeks have been a good break from blogging, an opportunity to refocus, get my priorities in line and then allow blogging to fill in the spaces – instead of the other way around.
I spent the evenings laughing with Jimmy while watching old episodes of The Cosby Show, rocking my little boy to sleep and reading Anne of Green Gables to my girls.
I’ve been going to bed early and waking up early. Exercising and spending some time with God before I start my day.
So, now I’m ready to get back to blogging…when I’m not playing dress up or baking things in the Easy Bake oven.
And I have at least one fun and helpful idea for you all. Stay tuned for that bit tomorrow.
Your Turn
And you? Do you do too much? Do you need to simplify?
I can say from experience that, while it hurts a bit in the process, it’s very worth it.
4 Responses to Simple and Faithful
Amy
September 7th, 2008 at 6:57 pm
I have a fairly low key life, b/c I am a very low energy person. Right now I’m running a bit ragged with the blogging, but the worst of that is over I think, well maybe next weekend I’ll be busy but after that….I mean clearly I feel like I have the time to read blogs right now.
I do need to simplify though, I have way too many things. I really need to purge my music, clothes, and books.
Steph S.
September 7th, 2008 at 7:15 pm
That has been our goal in life from day one of our marriage. We have never let ourselves get too busy with too many things. Even if that meant our kids took a WHOLE semester off of things like soccer & art classes & stuff like that. Then, when we all feel refreshed, we add something back – like a gymnastics class. We have our things that are priorities, but outside of that, everything is held loosely. We try not to overextend ourselves with friends even. That may sound awful, but we value highly our family time & if that means only having a few families that we see regularly, then that’s how it’s gotta be. We’re better friends that way anyway. The occassional hang out with old friends is still cool with us too, Kat! I would say we live a fairly simple life. We don’t live above our means financially, we try to weed out clutter as much as we can (we’re due for another weed session!), we protect our time…stuff like that. Our goal is to have a peaceful household & if we’re always running around with our heads cut off, that peace isn’t too be found. I am, by no means, saying we have it all together. There are seasons. Right now is one of those seasons where the hubby’s job is too consuming, we have the pressure of being in a leadership position (not a bad pressure, but just a pressure), it’s time for our kids to be able to pick something to be involved in because it’s been a while, school has begun, etc, etc. So, we make sure & reevaluate & purge the things that don’t bring peace. So, on that note, it is now getting later & I should go to bed so my day will be more peaceful tomorrow! Looking forward to hearing others experiences with this!
Lisa H
September 8th, 2008 at 4:09 am
I was wondering the reasons for your blogging break–nice job! It’s so refreshing to read your posts and I love how you are constantly re-evaluating your life and seeking to improve.
I’m always on the lookout for ways to simplify. My weakness seems to be clutter. I let things take over my house and I don’t feel at peace when things are not where they should be. So if it’s hard to keep things put away, then I know it’s time to de-clutter!
This post is timely, however. I was asked this week if I would be willing to take something extra on and it requires a small/medium investment of time. I’ve really been wanting to do this thing and am honored to be asked, but every time I consider it something in me keeps saying “no!” I’m thinking that it’s because I do enjoy a simple life. Thanks for the encouragement!
randel hambrick
September 8th, 2008 at 4:59 am
“I wasn’t doing half the job I knew I could do as a parent because I was spending that energy elsewhere.”
ouch..